Tuesday, November 13, 2007

The Leap

There was a cool breeze that blew in off the water, and I actually got goose bumps as a trickle of sweat ran down my back. Although it wasn’t exactly bright the sun had been directly in my eyes, but the music began to play and so I removed my sunglasses and slid them into my jacket pocket. I realized now that quite a few strangers were laying witness to this event, and I smiled sheepishly.

The day had started off wonderfully. When we had gone to bed the night before we left the doors to the balcony open so we could hear the crashing of the waves against the beach, but before the sun was up I had to close the doors, the room had become too humid. We had been exhausted from more than 13 hours of travel so our first night was a short one.

When we woke up we showered and threw on our swimming suits and headed to the breakfast buffet. The morning was beautiful, a bit less humid there was a nice breeze in the air. When we were done with breakfast we grabbed towels and set up near the pool.

People watching is a favorite pastime of mine and so we gawked poolside for a while. We noted the varying ranges of age of the people at the resort, and commented on mismatched couples, and pointed out the couples that were obviously on honeymoons. They were lost in the whirlwind of a Saturday wedding and a honeymoon that started on Sunday. In a fantasy land of delight their jobs, their families and the loads of packages were hundreds if not thousands of miles away from them.

Jennifer checked her watch, “It’s almost time for my appointment, I’ll see you in a bit?” Although it came across as a question, she had no doubts she was going to see me again in a few hours. As she wondered off I pulled out my book and buried my nose. The time flew by and before I knew it, it was time for me to go find Izzy.

I was in the next room buttoning my shirt, “It doesn’t bother you if I call you Izzy does it?” He laughed in return and when he spoke his accent was barely noticeable, “No, man, you can call me Izzy…” Stepping into the larger room Izzy smiled and said simply, “You look great, ya mon!”

Back on the beach I was barely cognizant of the water lapping against the beach behind me. I was standing between two practical strangers facing a group of strangers, and another stranger in a summery dress with a broad smile was walking towards me. But soon none of it mattered because my eyes met with Jennifer’s.

She looked beautiful in the white dress, and suddenly it was only the two of us on that beach. There were no hotel staff members acting as witnesses, there were no strangers, there was only the two of us. I admired her again and smirked as I recalled telling her how well the dress accentuated her curves and increased her bust line. She returned the smirk as if she could read my mind.

As quick as it all started it was over, rings were on our fingers, vowed were exchanged and quite a few strangers (gawkers really) were applauding us as we kissed. We went about and had our pictures taken, getting congratulated from various strangers sunning themselves.

I glanced at my watch, “Well I guess most everyone probably knows by now eh?” I noted. We had sent out invitations to our “reception” which would take place after we got home. Aside from a few family members our wedding was a complete surprise for everyone. Although our mothers were happy for us they were in agreement in the displeasure that we weren’t getting married in a church.

To satisfy them both (and their need for a Catholic wedding) we had a small ceremony in front of a priest before we left so that we were OK with God (thank God for Annulments!). But we still wanted a wedding on the beach.

Afterwards we did was newlyweds are supposed to do. We went back to our hotel room, stripped and spent the afternoon naked in bed. And then we enjoyed the rest of our vacation at the resort.

We came back home on Sunday to too many e-mails and voicemails to count. So many surprised but happy people. But judging from her message no one was more surprised than my ex-wife…

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

WOW! Congratulations!

Anonymous said...

I'd been wondering where you've been. Damn! Congratulations to you both!

Anonymous said...

Which one was Jennifer, is she the one you met at the family get away that you knew from childhood?
Sorry I wasn't following it as closely as I should have.

CONGRATS! Man.... Awasome.

Fill us in on what happened between then and now.

Considering your storied past of the last year I am shocked and very happy for you at the same time.

Damn a single man no more, well at least lord knows you got your share in the last year!

Way to go bro!

Chris said...

Holy shit! Not what I was expecting. Congratulations! And thanks for the pointer to the post. Welcome back :)

Tilly said...

Holy Hell! That's awesome! Congrats! Tell us MORE. Please.

SexxyBack said...

Cheecheez Christo! I can't believe it! Congradulations. Please tell us about the moment you decided to go for it. I know I really want to know how it happened (not the proposal, just in case that's not clear, but the decision making process for you). Single no more SJ!

i*maginate said...

the 2nd comment on your blog, thinking u're single, and now you're married?

Now isn't that amazingly great!

Sounds supremo.

Have fun, do well, keep happy....

Please let us know what married life is like!

xxx luv

Anonymous said...

Congratulations and best wishes. You do deserve to be happy!

The Exception said...

Congratulations!!

I was surprised to read this post and am thrilled for you. I do wish you both all the best.
And now we know why it is "reflections"... or will you be changing again?

Anonymous said...

yeah shouldn't you change your blog title or something???


congrats.....

JsTzznU said...

Congratulations!!! When you find the right one, you know it right away!! I did !! I'm happily married for the 2nd time for all but 5 years now!!

Enjoy =)

Renovatio said...

Congrats man! I had a feeling this was right around the corner :)

admin said...

You're married?! I was shocked to read that - sorry. You didn't even give me a chance- LOL!
Best of luck to ya!

Anonymous said...

Marraige is BORING!

This blog used to be very exciting...And now our single man is single no more

Well I hope you keep the loving in your marraige going as as long as you can bro.

You have 2 to 3 years of quality f!!king, congrats!!!

Espèra said...

So ... semi-single?
That doesn't mean anything now, does it?

The Exception said...

I hope that you two are enjoying your marriage - but are you going to drop back in and say hi?

Anonymous said...

Hi, love this entry and your blog. I host a relationship webisode- 3 minutes, 3 times a week. People "ask me anything...anything about relationships". And my real job is that I am a famous matchmaker. We just launched 3 months ago and we are getting alot of traffic and I am so excited to get more. Would love it if you would check it out, maybe write about it and call me a "fellow trooper"
Thx!
Samantha
www.relationshipchatter.tv

SexxyBack said...

Miss you!!!! Are you ever gonna write again? How about just an update?